I have thought of not visiting my family but my mom is 84 years old and I haven't seen her in about 4 years. Mom stays with my sister and so if I see mom I see my sister. My little brother is my buddy and I miss him. So I need a place to put Tia or I don't go. I know where Orange county is but it is too far from my mom. I think my husband and I will try to save up to see mom next year and just take turns with Tia. Tia can go everywhere with me except my family so it will cost to get a motel but maybe we can save enough.